Not Everyone Makes A Good Leader….

Do I think everyone makes a good leader?  No I do not.  Do I think everyone has leadership potential?  Yes I do, with the right training combined with the ability to reflect on the way a person communicates with others.  My views may have you jumping up and down at the mere suggestion that not everyone makes a good leader, and so I invite you to read on and watch the video below.

Let me shed some light on why I believe not everyone makes a good leader.   For the past 20 years I have worked for several bosses, a.k.a. ‘leaders’.  Some have been awful, some moderate and a couple inspiring.   Over the years I have noticed that many managers have arrived to their position by a natural progression of attainment.  People often end up as leaders or managers because they have been in a role for so long and or show a high level of competence at it; and I commend them for this level of achievement in their given role.

I’ve also worked with some very educated people, as in they have many letters after their name, who are also very competent, and at times outstanding in their knowledge.  BUT… being a leader is not about how you complete a task, nor is it about the letters after your name.  Being a good leader goes beyond this.

Imagine for a moment that we have been put into a leadership role.  To lead effectively it makes sense to understand the role of a leader and of course some of the key qualities needed to be effective.   So let’s put on our leadership hat for a moment.  Imagine yourself in the current role you hold, but you are now the ‘manager’.  Below are some of the key qualities a leader must be able to demonstrate if they are to have any hope at inspiring their colleagues to work to their potential, which of course benefits the business or area we manage.  And to keep us honest let’s also pretend the staff that we are managing answer the questions about us:

  • Is your manager trustworthy?
  • Are they self aware about their impact on you and others?
  • Do you they treat you with respect by treating you positively?
  • Is your manager excited about life and ready to keep on learning?
  • Are they confident and believe in themselves?
  • Does your manager have the ability to keep themselves and the team focused on the goal?
  • Can your manager break a task into manageable steps and make progress towards it?
  • Are they committed to excellence?

How do you think your colleagues would rate you?  Did you pass?  As nice as it is to know that we have some of these qualities I can tell you that I did not learn most of these skills at school, nor at University.   I developed these skills from living life, taking chances, setting big goals and achieving them, listening to others, getting excited about topics and researching them for interest, sharing my knowledge with others just because if felt good and MOST importantly having a few amazing mentors (good leaders) that showed me how to do things better or some would say, more tactfully; the ability to get on with others to reach a common goal.

What I am trying to demonstrate is that a leader is only as good as their ability to get on with people and inspire them using their personality and sound people strategies to attain success.  They are also people who consistently use words of kindness, appreciation and encouragement to inspire loyalty, enthusiasm and a team spirit.

How many mangers have you worked for that have given this to you?

If you have been as lucky as I have to experience this on more than one occasion, then like me you will have gone beyond what you thought you were capable of achieving.  If you have not yet experienced a good manager, maybe it is time to find a new job or business opportunity where you can be that leader for yourself and the people who work with you.

2012 is just around the corner…. what is your year going to look like?

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Hold On To Your Dreams

It is so important to Hold On To Your Dreams and tonight I was reminded once again how the support of loved ones makes it easier to work towards making our dreams a reality.

Now I am not generally one for keeping cards but as I tidied my room (which is always a rather epic event), I found birthday cards from my mum given to me over the past two years.

As I sat and reread them I was filled with love because the cards and written sentiments clearly demonstrated to me that my mum gets me.  It was one of those moments where I really appreciated having a mother that after everything we have been through is still there, who accepts and encourages me.  Pretty special.

I asked my mum if I could share these two cards with you and she was okay with it – thanks mum 🙂

 

"Don't go through life.... grow through it."

 

I had to giggle when I took in both pictures… mum managed to find cards that represented the way I used to interact with her.  I was very prickly and difficult or loving and friendly.  The choice of cards were unique to our relationship, where she found them I’ll never know as I haven’t seen them in any bookstores or shops I’ve been to.

 

 

Whether it is your mum. dad, family member or good friend, they know and should support you in a way that builds a strong self worth.  We need to have a stable self esteem with all the choices that come along each and every day.  How we feel about ourselves will often dictate what decision we will make.

Hold on to your dreams, trust yourself because you have everything inside you right now to succeed…. and remember to begin…. we all start somewhere.

Hail In Waipawa?

This week had me staying with some awesome friends at their place in Waipawa, New Zealand.  For those that have no idea where this township can be found, it is about a five minute drive from Waipukurau in the Hawkes Bay.

It turns out that Mother Nature wanted to make herself known so decided to throw a hail storm.  Check out some of the photographs taken just before the storm broke….

Hail is brewing up in those clouds....
Dark, dark clouds...

Here is a video of the hail storm making itself known…..

Xmas Time At Hope & Glory….

Believe it or not Christmas is just around the corner and if you are still in a mad rush to find that perfect present for a loved one then make sure you pop in to Hope & Glory on the main street in Greytown, Wairarapa.

Below is a selection of yummy goodies you can lay your hands on…. and if you want to purchase something online make sure you click on this link: Hope & Glory

Happy shopping!

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Man Stuff To Make Him Smile....
Comfort & Style...
Cards For Every Occasion....
A Touch Of Class...
Fun & Funky....
Delicate & Devine...
Something Soft....
Humour Is Everything!
Pamper Your Skin...
Natural Skincare.....
Cuff Links With An Edge...
Great for baking with the kids....
Vintage, Practical & Affordable...